Before I could launch Clearing the Heir, I needed to do one last sweep of deculltering and organizing of my own space...again.
Last summer, I undertook a massive decluttering of my house including many inherited items I had been holding onto for a long time. These included cool, nostalgic, and valuable pieces, as well as things I thought I might use "one day." By letting go of so much, I made my home feel more spacious and relieved the pressure that excessive belongings had placed on me. Now, I have less to dust and more storage space in my furniture and cabinets, but it’s the mental load that I truly released.
I realized I never used the dishes my grandmother cherished, nor did I need my box collection AND my grandmother’s. I also got rid of duplicates—one practical item and one that was "too nice" to use. Instead, I chose the best of everything and now use the "too nice" items every day. Additionally, I sold or gifted some beautiful pieces to friends or through my booth.
Here’s what I can share: I don’t miss the items I can’t see. My home feels special because most of my belongings have meaning. Friends who didn’t have heirlooms like I do, often appreciate very much what I gave them. Time and again, people would walk by my booth and share how they’ve enjoyed the treasures they discovered there. It’s wonderful to spread goodness into the world.
Lastly, when I'm clearing out or organizing a home, I sometimes find myself appreciating an item for one reason or another. But guess what? I don’t want it. I've come too far in separating myself from the burden of possessions to take on my clients’ items. No way!
I don’t judge what anyone chooses to keep, discard, or store temporarily. I'm here to guide them on a journey—no shame, no judgment. I've done this for myself, so I certainly won’t judge anyone who isn’t in the same place.
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